Category Archives: Emotional Abuse

Filthy, Rotton Lies Malicious Fathers Tell Our Kids To Break the Mother-Child Bond: “Your Mother tried to get rid of you.” Sick, right? More common than you think! It happened to us, and countless others.

I’ve heard from hundreds of survivors of family court corruption: mothers wrongly separated from their beloved children. The tactics used by Dads infected with Malicious Father Syndrome all use the same set of lies – a paint-by-number strategy pre-meditated to break the sacred bond between child and mother. Never mind the deep, lasting damage this causes our children. For these egomaniacs, that’s just collateral damage.

I too lived this torture, watching in horror while my ex-husband filled my child’s head with lies, and for anyone who would give him an audience, family members, especially greedy and corrupt court crooks. The most despicable of all the lies was “Your Mother tried to get rid of you.” I felt powerless to protect my child from this horrific torture, of my child being made to believe I was even capable of such a horrible act. Why was I powerless to protect? Because churning and charging these cases and harvesting victims is big business for judges, lawyers and court shrinks. Corruption is king in our family courts

Why would a Mother ever be put in the humiliating and difficult position of going back to her Doctor to obtain a letter setting the record straight in the first place? Such a sad business to be forced to do so, having to ask for such a letter. But here it is, once more, feeling like I have no other choice but to open up my private medical records to protect myself from Pathological Liars, Bullies, Abusers and Thieves. So, here’s my doctor’s letter, refuting this despicable lie.

Your Disobediance Toward A Narcissist’s Control, Dr. Les Carter

“Because of the combination of control and entitlement, narcissists actually believe it is your duty to obey them. This explains why they can be so easily agitated by your distinctive choices. Dr. Les Carter poses the question: What if you decided to disobey the narcissist? What would that look like? Contrary to what the narcissist thinks, you are under no obligation to lay down your unique initiatives.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3lwtDXYbrdg

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How To Un-Gaslight Kids, Dr. Ramani

Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Clinical Psychologist, Best-Selling Author, Professor of Psychology, Distinguished International Speaker, & Workplace Consultant. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. She is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012, and a visiting professor at the University of Johannesburg. She was also the national recipient of the American Association of University Women Emerging Scholar Award. http://doctor-ramani.com

Another great resource on childhood trauma, DV by proxy, and recovery: CarlaCorelli.com

Once, I ran from fear so fear controlled me. Until I learned to hold fear like a newborn. Listen to it, but not give in. Honour it, but not worship it. Fear could not stop me anymore. I walked with courage into the storm. I still have fear, but it does not have me.

http://www.carlacorelli.com/

New Page-Resources: For Stolen Children & Erased Families

Love has never been conquered, not even by the greatest army.” – Matshono Dhliwayo

Resources page providing support for children who were stolen from a loving parent and family, as well as erased families separated by family by court corruption, Kids For Cash scams, Court Licensed Abuse, Medical Kidnapping, Domestic Violence by Proxy, Parental Alienation, CPS Corruption or Kidnapping:

When Parental Alienation (DV by Proxy) Has You Ready To Give Up, Susan S. Hofer

Being an Alienated Parent is Excruciating

An alienated parent’s life is an excruciating existence, one that takes an enormous amount of energy to live.  The results of your efforts are always filled with disappointment and pain.  What else would you do, in your life, that involves so much fortitude to be rejected every time?  No one likes rejection, but for you, the alienated parent, rejection is your new normal.  Still, it hurts each time you reach out to your precious child only to hear silence.  The wound never gets a chance to heal.https://www.susanshofer.com/when-parental-alienation-has-you-ready-to-give-up/