An excellent article.  Shortly after she published it, she went missing.

“Rule One, of course, is to understand you are on a Holodeck where nothing is as it appears.  Rule Two, is to know that the “Litigation Vortex” does indeed exist.  Rule Three, and the third principle one must know in order to survive or perhaps even thrive in a battle in the Holodeck Court, is to understand who your real enemies are. Normally, your enemies are easy to discern. Common sense tells you that they are the ones attacking you. For example, if you are the plaintiff in a case, then it is certainly reasonable to think that the defendant is your enemy in this legal battle. Because you are on the Holodeck Court, however, you must continually remind yourself that things are not as they appear.”

http://www.ejfi.org/Courts/Courts-5.htm#triangle